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You Dont Have to Try So Hard

 "You don't have to try so hard. You don't have to give it all away". - "Try" by Colbie Calliat 

This is a song lyric I'm sure we've all heard once or twice however I think it is pertinent for young women in today's society to truly digest and remember. In a world that calls us to show off every bit of our bodies and to give away every ounce of energy to simply be accepted, in a world that calls us to conform to it's impossible beauty standards and to excel in everything or else be worthy of nothing.... Young women tofay need to remember their worth is not determined by the world's standards, to those reading this, you are perfect just the way you are. You are fearfully and wonderfully made, if our creator took the time to place every single star by hand how much more time did he take planning you? Think about that and remember you don't have to give it all away! Everything you need to succeed is already inside of you and you are truly beautiful inside and out. Guard your hearts, guard your minds and guard your bodies, it's a treacherous world out there. Above all remember where your worth comes from. Your with is not in this world, rather it is in Jesus himself and his love for you. Have a blessed week ❤


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