Statistics.. Probability.. Compatibility, these are all concepts based
upon chance and yes some statistics may have patterns that back them up
per say but that makes them a chance no less. I've been thinking tonight
how it's kind of ironic that were at a day in age where we talk
endlessly about self discovery and figuring out who we truly are as
people etc, and yet we trust so much in statistics. A statistic is a
fact for some people but not all, it is defined as "a fact or piece of
data from a study of a large quantity of numerical data". According to
this definition, a statistic is a number... If we are truly trying to
figure out who we are as people then why so often do we degrade
ourselves and one another to a number? Think about this for a while, it
might drive you fairly insane just as it has me. We have statistics of
who is most likely to graduate, statistics of how many people will
encounter a certain situation in their lives, statistics of how many
people will contract a disease, statistics of what body types and
personal lifestyles will make a person live the longest, statistics
about someones personality type without even knowing the person. If you
look close enough there are enough statistics, enough numbers, to
literally cover a persons life from the day they are born to the day
they die. It saddens me that we as people are so commonly being degraded
to numbers, that our lives are simply a scratch on the number line..
Something even more interesting then statistics though is how many
people defy them, those people aren't included in the calculation more
often then not and if they are then their considered the odd ball out.
We all have unique qualities specific to us that guess what, statistics
can't define or even recognize, and this is because we are more then
numbers! I want to remind everyone tonight no matter who you are or
where you are, that you are so much more then the numbers, equations and
words that this world tries to use to define you! You are a person with
a personality that no one else has, you have skill sets specific to
you, and you are not a statistic! You have 100% of the power to write
your own story, stop trying to add up the equations constantly swirling
around you, stop trying to fit into equations and wondering why you
don't. You weren't meant to, you were never meant to be a number on
someones spreadsheet. God gave you a beating heart and a buzzing mind to
give you the tools needed to touch hearts of those around you and to
decipher the world, he gave all of us unique qualities to set us apart
and to do his work in this world. Guess what, numbers don't do any work,
the ones calculating them do the work. We were not made to sit back and
let others calculate our lives. We have the opportunity to write our
own stories full of love, laughter, faith and feelings that no number
can ever describe. What will your story entail?
Often times when you think about "love", where does your mind go? For some of us it might be the love shared between a couple or a family, friends etc. Rarely however do we think about ourselves. The world can feel like its spinning a million miles an hour, I know mine is. We spend so much time making sure everyone else is okay that we often times neglect ourselves. We love everyone and try to make sure they know that, but what about making sure we know we love ourselves? That were happy with who we are? You may be thinking I've gone crazy right now trying to tell you to love yourself lol. I'm serious though, we are our biggest critics and I feel like we spend so much time critiquing ourselves that we forget to be happy with who we are. We tend to excuse mistakes of ones we care about, as we should but then we dwell on our own mistakes and let them tear us apart. We need to show ourselves the compassion we show others and we need to be comfortable with who we are as ...
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