"People fall in love in mysterious ways." A quote from one of Ed Sheeran's very famous and beloved songs that I'm sure we've all heard at some point. Although it may be just a pop song lyric to some, to others it has a much more impactful meaning. Love is a word known since the beginning of time, its gone through centuries of cultural chance, it's brought people together in ways never thought possible, it's been a source of hope and light, a strong stand point. What I find fun to think about is the fact that not only do certain people find love in mysterious ways, we all do. Every specific way that couples come to love one another is mysterious, its not able to be calculated or predicted, it simply happens.The connection shared between two people comes about from mystery and that is beautiful. The fact that we all have our own love stories in which are completely separate from one another is beautful. Even if couples met one another in the same place at the same exact time, those two couples stories would still be completely different. Love is a gift and I think that often times we try too hard to calculate it and map it out, and know the exact coordinates of when it will happen etc, that we miss out on enjoying the mystery. Enjoy the mystery, if it's already come then congratulations! If your still waiting maybe trying to map it out, stop, enjoy right now and enjoy the mystery that is yet to come <3
I feel there is something not talked about enough, everyone knows the feeling of failure. We all make mistakes, comes with being human, we all cope with that. How though do we cope when unplanned mistakes take place, I know your wondering what on earth I mean by this, most mistakes are unplanned… I am referring to the mistakes, the trials that occur even when the “rules” are followed, those that incur even when perhaps we have done everything right that is within in our power. This takes a different type of coping, paired with an even greater understanding and matched with yet a greater perspective. In order to cope and heal from these unplanned mistakes we need to evaluate what was within our control and what was genuinely not. Often times when things go wrong we immediately blame and criticize ourselves because let’s be real, that is much easier than accepting the unknown and accepting the true lack of control we had over the situation. It is facing this fact though that allows for
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