Today I had the privilege of meeting the sweetest couple, for the sake of privacy I won't say names but I really want to recognize them. My family and I talked to them for a good half hour or so seeing as my dad has been friends with them for quite some time. Since I had never met them, I got to hear a little bit of this amazing woman's story and testimony. 13 years ago she was diagnosed with cancer, and 13 years ago she was given only two weeks to live, 13 years later she is still here and yes she has been through a lot but she is a living testimony of how God works miracles and saves us from man kinds worst trials. She is a strong Christian and knows its because of God she pulled through, the way she really gave praise back to God is something I truly admire. Another testimony that I saw in the couple as a unit is the definition of commitment and love. Her husband has been by her side through all of it, through times when she could barely walk and times of her being healed. He never gave up on her, never left, and never handed her over to someone else to deal with. He stood by his wife through everything and this is so refreshing to see because in today's world, commitment is like a forsaken word. No one wants anything to do with it, in fact people run from it. For those of us out there who still dream of growing old with the love of our life, seeing little things like this in couples, it sparks hope for our futures. It inspires and reminds us that the ways we are raised, the values we've been instilled with do exist. And even though our generation may be trying to wipe them out, we still have a fighting chance and we still have outstanding role models showing us the way even when we least expect it. I want to say thank you to these friends of ours for being a testimony of faith, of commitment and a role model of a strong marriage.
Often times when you think about "love", where does your mind go? For some of us it might be the love shared between a couple or a family, friends etc. Rarely however do we think about ourselves. The world can feel like its spinning a million miles an hour, I know mine is. We spend so much time making sure everyone else is okay that we often times neglect ourselves. We love everyone and try to make sure they know that, but what about making sure we know we love ourselves? That were happy with who we are? You may be thinking I've gone crazy right now trying to tell you to love yourself lol. I'm serious though, we are our biggest critics and I feel like we spend so much time critiquing ourselves that we forget to be happy with who we are. We tend to excuse mistakes of ones we care about, as we should but then we dwell on our own mistakes and let them tear us apart. We need to show ourselves the compassion we show others and we need to be comfortable with who we are as ...
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