I'm sure you've all heard the saying ,"follow your heart" from time to time again. Its one that I have recently taken to heart myself. Being the strictly realistic person I am, I used to change it around and say to follow your heart but listen to your mind. Basically if what my heart wanted wasn't realistic then I'd shut it down. Recently I've learned a very important lesson, which is to fully follow your heart. Your mind will change and it will grow with your life, but your heart, that stays constant. No matter how complicated or unrealistic it might be, follow the path of your heart. I know I learned the hard way on that. You see when you neglect your heart, then its like theirs this hole that nothing seems to fill, nothing except what your heart want in the first place. The versatility of this lesson honestly amazes me, it could be a relationship, a job, or any goal you have. Follow your heart and trust yourself, push and work hard towards whatever it may be in order to accomplish it, and don't give up, by following through you will have no regrets but instead only accomplishment and joy in the end. No matter what your goal or circumstance may be for this lesson and time of evaluation, let me say one more thing. Whatever you do, do it whole heatedly because if you don't feel something for what your doing or if its a relationship, then who your with, then theirs no point. Strive for what or who fills your heart and set your heart free on this journey of life, no longer caged by realistic properties or complications. See then how your outlook on life may change.
I feel there is something not talked about enough, everyone knows the feeling of failure. We all make mistakes, comes with being human, we all cope with that. How though do we cope when unplanned mistakes take place, I know your wondering what on earth I mean by this, most mistakes are unplanned… I am referring to the mistakes, the trials that occur even when the “rules” are followed, those that incur even when perhaps we have done everything right that is within in our power. This takes a different type of coping, paired with an even greater understanding and matched with yet a greater perspective. In order to cope and heal from these unplanned mistakes we need to evaluate what was within our control and what was genuinely not. Often times when things go wrong we immediately blame and criticize ourselves because let’s be real, that is much easier than accepting the unknown and accepting the true lack of control we had over the situation. It is facing this fact though that allows for
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