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Self Image ~
This is something I wanted to touch on because I believe its something that we all struggle with. The actual definition of "self image" is The idea a person has of his or her abilities, appearance, and personality. Now everyone struggles with this but as teens we are pressured even more by peers , social media and even ourselves. See while other people judge us it really comes down to how we judge ourselves at the end of the day. If you want people to view you as the confident, amazing person you are than you first have to see those qualities in yourself. This is something I personally had a hard time with for years, I wasn't the right size or I wore the wrong kind of jeans. I wanted so badly to fit in with my peers and was willing to do almost anything to get the satisfaction I thought came with being apart of the "in crowd." I learned that its not about what everyone thinks of you at all actually , its about how you view yourself and I also learned that when  you see yourself as the beautiful, smart and down right amazing person you are than other people start to notice it too. Who really wants to be the same as everyone else anyways? Take pride in what makes you different because God only made ONE you for a reason.

~Why be apart of all the plastic when you can be your own kinda classic~

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